@macgyver Go with the motor man. I was a yachtie for years (Beneteau 38’ - 3rd. hand )
You become too old to do all the work - and your mates do too - and the kids/grandkids lose interest.
Now we putt around the lakes in comfort in a 32’ motor launch (hand built - laid up RFP - Perkins diesel). Sitting. On the aft deck sipping single malt. - bliss. Warning- water police have breathalysers .